Why it’s Absolutely Essential to Gift Him, Yourself and the World with Your Hurt — Episode 76

Your hurt is part of your wisdom nature. Sharing it with yourself, with those around you and with the world is a profoundly powerful, truth-filled and much-needed gift.

Topics Explored in Episode 76: 

  • A TANTRIC introduction into the relationship between Masculine and Feminine.
  • How we unknowingly REPRESS OUR EMOTIONS.
  • “Following your bliss” as related to destiny. YES! But also, “feeling your hurt”, as related to destiny — it’s just as important!
  • How feeling and honoring your HURT is so integral in creating HEALTHY BOUNDARIES with others.

Enjoy the episode!


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Show Notes:

3:50 — Invitation to expand the mind and to move past the patterned neurological limitations of day-to-day consciousness.

7:30 — An overview of Masculine and Feminine energy. Feminine as Shakti, life force, flow, “Spirit in form”. Masculine as pure consciousness, presence, “Spirit in formless”.

11:25 — We have robbed the world and ourselves of Feminine intelligence, Feminine grace, Feminine wisdom. Repressing the Feminine gifts of emotion and sensitivity is denying the world (and ourselves) the truth.

15:50 — It’s easy to blame the patriarchy for the state of the world. The current collective focus on both the climate crisis and corruption within politics are undeniable. It indicates what is currently rising up to be looked at, what is ready for awakening.

20:00 – The gift of the Masculine is direction, one-pointed focus and goal-orientated action. The gift of Feminine energy is love, passion, aliveness — it’s also the life force that fuels the Masculine’s ability to take action!

25:00 — The Feminine’s immense sensitivities, her ability to deeply feel and to empathize with family, community, creatures, and the Earth is a HUGE gift that we have shut down for centuries upon centuries.

29:00 — Not allowing ourselves to feel, honor and express our hurt denies the Masculine (both our inner Masculine, as well as, the external Masculine) and the chance to make good decisions.

33:00 — The importance of fully embodying the feeling and the emotion in order to get through the density of the Masculine.

34:30 — What is the state of your inner relationship between Masculine and Feminine? How awake is it? How honored is it? How revered is it? How much do you trust it?

36:00 — Your destiny, your True North, your soul’s callings — following your hurt and your pain is just as important, just as valid, and just as wise as “following your bliss” (as coined by Joseph Campbell).

37:00 — How lack of accepting and feeling your hurt contributes to unhealthy boundaries with others.

38:20 — The importance of showing our hurt to the world. Taking it from just blaming the patriarchy to why showing the pain is the sacred responsibility of the Feminine!

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  1. KarenAyotte on February 16, 2020 at 9:03 am

    Wow Sabrina, so powerful and clear. Thank you , you really hit a nerve with this one!

    • Sabrina Domenosky on February 22, 2020 at 9:16 am

      We’re sending love to that nerve, Karen. Thank you for the comment dear woman! 🙂